Mindy Richmond – On The 8’s

Lots of nonsense with bits of accidental wisdom.

Sweet tea April 29, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 10:08 pm

This morning I was putting away a giant box of tea bags and had a craving for iced tea. The good, southern sweet kind. I love sweet tea. They don’t make it sweet up here in the north. Up here if I drink iced tea I add artificial sweetener (because real sugar doesn’t dissolve) and it’s just not the same. I had heard that in the south they make sweet tea by boiling the water with the sugar right in it. I am intrigued by this, but until today it never occurred to me that I could try it that way on my own. The only kind of tea I make at home is the hot kind.

So today I found a recipe for southern sweet tea and tried it out. Being my first attempt, I had low expectations. I figured it would need some tweaking to get it just to my liking. But you know what? I nailed it on the first try! This stuff is amazing! Just how I like it: not bitter, and the kind of sweet that is right up to the edge, where if it were any sweeter it would be too overwhelming. Perfect.

With summer coming, I envision many more pitchers of this delicious cold beverage. So if any of you are fans of sweet tea, come on over! You can kick back with me on the porch with a tall glass of goodness. Yum.

By the way, scroll down to the Headlines post from 4/25 and check out the pictures of Poet. Adorable.

 

Bedside manner April 28, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 3:28 pm

We are only 1.5 weeks into our fertility treatment journey and we are aggravated. I thought it was just the brevity of the situation, that this is just how it is. But I have now come to realize that it does not have to be so aggravating. It is possible to make a crappy situation less tolerable, and perhaps even enjoyable. The difference: bedside manner. Let’s smile once in awhile, people. Let’s speak more slowly (English, perhaps?) and with smaller words (we did not go to medical school). Let’s have some compassion. Let’s be nice. Infertility is a horribly personal and emotional issue for those going through it and you would think that an infertility clinic would know how to handle it with kid gloves.

I called the other infertility clinic in town (there are only two) and explained that I was not comfortable with my current clinic and was contemplating switching. I wanted to see if I would be more comfortable at their clinic so I set up an appointment with their doc. When I asked if I should still go ahead with the tests ordered by the current doc, the woman put me on the phone with the nurse so I could ask her the question myself. I and the nurse, we had a lovely chat. She was kind and funny and she explained to me thoroughly what my options were and gave me a lot of great advice. I didn’t feel like I was taking precious time out of her busy day and I felt like she really cared about our situation. It’s true, these people do exist. I’m sold. Now I just have to tell Mike about it. The only down side is that the appointment isn’t until June 28. What’s another two months when we’ve been waiting six years? And if it means we won’t dread every doctor’s visit, isn’t that worth it?

 

Dig In Your Garden – Not Your Purse April 26, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 11:48 am

Holy crap, this looks amazing:

Put it in a Purseket and Dig No More

Purseket is the solution to the mess in your handbag. It’s a removable,
flexible panel of pockets that fits snugly in your purse to hold and organize
all your stuff.

Discover it at:

http://www.purseket.com

I want one!!

 

Anniversary, Lucky 7 April 26, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 8:38 am

XM: Rita Springer – “Worth It All”

Monday was our 7th wedding anniversary. We are still very much in love. I’ve never been into getting flowers but this year I told Mike that I thought I wanted flowers for our anniversary. (It’s okay to tell men exactly what you want. It has a 99% success rate – hint-dropping and manipulation do not.) I was thinking just a small little bouquet but he sent me roses – 12 of them! Apparently Annie Rae has a deal with the flower shop so he bought them at a great price (which as far as I’m concerned is part of the charm of the gift. I’m a practical girl.). He even had them delivered, so they sit here at my desk where I can enjoy them all day. That and when people notice them it gives me another opportunity to brag about my husband.

I bought Mike a funny card (as always!) and the movie “Hitch” on DVD. I got home from my board meeting at 10 pm and then we snuggled up on the couch and watched the movie. That wasn’t really a sufficient anniversary celebration so we ate at Outback last night. Afterwards we tried to watch Cinderella Man again, but it turned out to be one family nap with us and the cats.

Anniversaries are special but I remarked last night that it didn’t feel much different than every other day. We are always saying “I love you” (thanks to Grandpa Selleck’s excellent advice) and comment often on how glad we are that God brought us together. The only difference is now we answer “7″ when people ask how many years we’ve been married. Plus, a date for us isn’t that big of a deal. Being married without kids is like being on one long date.

Speaking of kids, we are finally seeing a fertility specialist. In light of the one-long-date comment, I wonder if we are crazy in trying to mess with how things are, but we know that we want children and we know we will be happy either way :) We are still in the testing, gathering information stage, so I have nothing to report. This is an area that’s pretty personal to me, so to be honest I may not report at all. I just thought I should tell you so you can [pray, cross your fingers, rub the buddha, throw the penny in the wishing well] for us. My main goal at this point is to find a sense of humor about it so that it doesn’t crush me. That’s all.

There is an air of anxiety (shall we say pregnant with anticipation?) as Kari awaits the enormous task of childbirth. This baby marks the beginning of a new generation for our family and we can’t wait to welcome her in. Sweetness follows. Soon!

 

“Love Monkey” quote April 25, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 11:58 am

So I’m reading this book “Love Monkey” by Kyle Smith. They made a television show based on it. Loved the show but it didn’t stay on the air long. I think it’s already in syndication on VH1 or something. The show sparked my interest in the book, so I checked it out at the library. It’s got quite a few laugh out loud moments and this statement is one of them:

“There are times when I’ve thought about growing up, cashing in however many talent chips I have, getting down to work. But there’s always something good on TV.”

 

Headlines April 25, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 8:58 am

XM: David Gray – “Please Forgive Me”
Mood: Subdued

I’ve been putting off posting because I wanted to include the pictures but… but I have no excuse. I just haven’t felt like it quite yet. Words and pictures are a lot of work. So I’m going to put the words up then add the pictures later.

FPU Families Graduated Last Week
There was food, fellowship, laughter. We had one or two testimonies and we watched the SNL skit, “Don’t Buy Stuff You Cannot Afford.” Thank you, Vicki, for finding that DVD. Everyone loved it.

The last lesson in FPU is called “The Great Misunderstanding.” The basic message in it is that God asks us to give because he is a giver and he wants us to become more like him. It’s not because the church needs our money or because “he said so.” It’s a great lesson, a real eye-opener.

All in all I believe the class was a great success. We heard nothing but positive feedback throughout the 13 weeks and we have had several requests for another class. Some of the graduates have expressed interest in having get togethers to reunite and see how everyone is doing in continuing with the principles they have learned. Some even want to keep meeting on a regular basis for accountability! We haven’t decided on when to have the next class, but I look forward to it either way. This is a great program and I love that my church is allowing me to offer it there.

Have You Ever Seen A Newborn Smile?
I hadn’t until Saturday. I was holding the sleeping Poet, rubbing his head to try to wake him up a bit, when he opened his eyes, looked right at me, and grinned. Thankfully, Michelle was sitting next to me so she was able to witness her dear son’s very first smile. It was the most miraculous thing. Of course I didn’t get a picture (how could I have known?) but I don’t think a photo would have done it any justice anyway. That boy is just the sweetest thing. Don and Michelle are blessed, indeed.

You Had To Be There
I spent some time at Kari’s place with her, Mark, and Brett. We had a delicious dinner and laughed the entire time we were together. I don’t think anything we laughed at would have been particularly funny to anyone else, but there’s something about the combination of us siblings that makes things seem hilarious. One of us will ask a dumb question or say a silly statement and within a matter of seconds we are all in stitches. I love it. We once started writing down a list of funny things each of us had said, so that we could look back on it and laugh again later, but I have to find the list. One we added from Saturday was this (let’s see if you share the Selleck humor):

Kari: “Brett, would you like something to drink?”
Brett: “No thanks, I just ate a grape.”

Must have been one juicy grape. See, Brett is The Smart One so it’s pure bliss when we can catch him making ridiculous, nonsensical statements such as this.

Your Typical Sunday
Church, brunch at Flapjack, couch time, hot cocoa at Chey’s. All great things. Pastor Rod gave a great sermon about stewardship. It’s hard to keep the congregation’s attention when you are talking about stewardship (aka managing God’s money) but he did a terrific job. He used Skittles as a metaphor for money and at one point he actually used the term “bling-bling.” No joke.

After church and brunch Mike and I settled in to watch “Cinderella Man.” Excellent movie. We’ll probably watch it again before we return it to the movie store. It’s a beautiful story about family and integrity and doing the right thing, and the boxing ain’t bad to watch either.

My evening was spent at Chey’s house, sipping hot cocoa and chatting. No matter how tired we are, we always end up engaging in some interesting conversation and laughter. Very often our conversations lead to lightbulb moments, because we understand each other better than we understand ourselves. I love my Chey. And with her I never feel like I need to be on my best behavior :)

Holy Moly, this has turned out to be a long post. Let’s end it here and I’ll post again later. I promise.

Thanks for reading.

 

Happy Birthday, Josh! April 22, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 8:38 am

Rhapsody: The Fray – “Look After You”
Mood: Bittersweet

Today is my brother’s birthday. Fifteen whole years! Where does the time go? The day he came into our lives still seems like yesterday. I’m wishing today that I could see him and give him a big birthday hug, but he is down in Florida and that would be a really long drive :)

Josh, I love you so much and I am so proud of who you have grown up to be. You have learned so much in your 15 years and I look forward to watching you grow another 15. You are a blessing to me and I thank God for bringing you into my life.

 

Poet’s Birth Announcement April 18, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 2:08 pm

Technology rocks.

 

Tax Season. Done. April 18, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 9:08 am

I love helping people with the necessary evil of filing taxes, but I’m always glad when tax season is over. I hate seeing all those dollars go to the government.

Oh, and for those of you getting huge refunds: Change your withholdings!! Don’t be a sucker.

 

Poet… April 17, 2006

Filed under: Nonsense — Mindy Richmond @ 3:58 pm

…has arrived!! Poet Kadin was born to Michelle & Don this morning at 8:45 am. He is 6 lb. 11 oz. 19.5 in. Yessirree, I don’t believe it either. He wasn’t due for another 3 weeks! I haven’t met him or even seen pictures yet, but there are rumors that he is a handsome baby (which we all knew he would be).

Kari, you’re next… :)